A companion piece to my memoir Unshaming, here I talk about shame one post at a time. I cover addiction, relationships, sex, recovery, arts and culture. Sometimes when I feel particularly weak, I post work-in-progress.
Author of five books including Unshaming (Mar 2026), a book about shame, recovery, relapse, failure and hope.
I don't give advice or take it. I write 5-minute essays about love, death, grief, sleep, dating and Lisbon. I'm a journalist, copywriter, big fan of regrets and starting over. I include one photo each post of me actually writing for you.
Exploring what it means to travel through time in a human body, at every phase of life.
Four verticals edited by Sari Botton: MEMOIR MONDAY, collab w/ Granta, Narratively, The Rumpus, Orion, The Walrus, Electric Lit, LitHub, Oldster; FIRST PERSON SINGULAR original essays; THE LIT LAB interviews + craft; GOODBYE TO ALL THAT, NYC stories.