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Lessons of a well-lived, well-loved, and well-f*cked life.

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Welcome to an intimate exploration of love, sex, grief, and relationships. This is a weekly newsletter and podcast of intimate stories, reflections, confessions, and practices for the curious and creative soul.

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About Portia Mayari

A midlife writer, mother, and trauma-informed intimacy coach returning to her body after a year of grief and unraveling. I write about sensuality, sovereignty, and what it means to come home to yourself againโ€”and again.

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