I'm Not Gaslighting You

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Personal essays and research-based tools to help you resist medical gaslighting and get better end-of-life healthcare. Written from the perspective of a PhD sociologist who also happens to be a real-life woman in an actual body. Author of YOUR GOOD DEATH.

About Karen Lutfey Spencer PhD

Author of YOUR GOOD DEATH (Regalo press, Sept 2026 🎉) order at the 🔗 above! Sociologist writing on health, illness, end-of-life & the politics of getting quality healthcare.

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