Settling Is Bullshit

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Sweary life advice for humans trying to get better at adulting. We'll talk about trauma, vulnerability, authenticity, self-compassion, and all the good shit that helps us show up for ourselves and each other just a little bit better every day.

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About Cate Blouke

Author and life coach, PhD. Practitioner of joy. Human trying to get better at adulting.

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