Come along as a lifelong native New Yorker builds a new life across the country in San Diego.
I help people who have it all figure out whatโs next.
Advice and wisdom from Heather Havrilesky, published since 2012 (formerly at The Awl and NY Magazine). Paid subscribers receive 1-2 weekly posts on how to navigate our broken world with compassion, realism, and an open heart.
In a world constantly demanding too much of us (more labor, more curated versions of ourselves, more time, you pick) โ this is the space where you can just be. Wild Cozy Free is a dedicated place to honor the messy fullness of who we are.