It’s a Lot, Actually

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For emotionally exhausted women navigating midlife

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  • An archive of posts on all the feelings

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About Claire Fitzsimmons

Will follow curiosity anywhere | Helps people feel all their feelings | Lover of beautiful words | Idea collector | Seeker of places that can hold us | Gets lost sometimes too.

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