Decolonizing Love

Decolonizing Love

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We explore how colonialism shaped relationships, then practice new ways to love.

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About Decolonizing Love

We’re Millie & Nick, the most-followed polyamory educators worldwide (550k+ across platforms). Controversial critical thought leaders who ask the tough questions, unpack colonialism in relationships, and model liberatory ways to love.